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I’ve struggled over whether to bring this entry over quite yet. I had thought maybe I would work up to these uncomfortable questions, maybe waiting until I had time to write them with a few more years of thought behind them. But I’ve decided to bring this here, unedited, because of how much important conversation it brought from those who read it back then, and perhaps it will set the stage for when I’m ready to start this discussion again. In it’s original form, and because of the particular time when it was written, it included the following header:

Warning: Not politically correct, nor appropriately sensitive to the feelings of others and their private relationships, which are none of my business. If you are struggling with a relationship, you should skip my stumblings through your heartache. Polys are encouraged to comment, though, so I can learn something.

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